If you are reading this article, you are either dating a guy and wondering if he is the right one for you or you are wanting reassurance that your fiancé is your perfect match. Both of these scenarios are totally fine and normal to be thinking. Here are some things that help you know that he is the love of your life and the one that you are destined to be with.
1. He is Chivalrous
Being with a guy who treats you like a princess is extremely important. When he treats you like a princess it shows that he values you and appreciates that you chose him. He can show this feeling by doing chivalrous things for you which include opening doors, bringing you cupcakes and chick flicks when it is that time of the month, and meeting your friends and family. These acts show that he is in this relationship for the long haul and has no intentions of leaving you any time soon, if at all.
2. You Can be Yourself
If you and your boyfriend/fiancé are able to be yourselves around each other without worrying about them judging, you have definitely found the one. Whether being yourself means being goofy, lazy, or gassy, if your second half accepts all of your quirks, he is a keeper because this shows that he can accept you at your best and at your worst, he sees beauty in everything you do. This is one of the tell-tale signs that your relationship is meant-to-be and goals.
3. Your Friends and Family Adore Him
When the people that surround you are trustworthy and a great support system, their thoughts about your boyfriend/fiancé are extremely important. They are able to see the things that you might be blind to because you are so in love. You know that he is the right one for you if they absolutely adore him. This shows that you guys make a great couple and that he places value in building relationships with your loved ones. The approval from your friends is vital to any continuation of your relationship because of how important their support is to you.
4. You are Always on His Mind
A guy that is both considerate and sensitive to your needs is one worth keeping. It is even better if he texts or calls you telling you that he is thinking about you. This act cannot be one-sided however. If you are also always thinking of ways to make him smile and constantly are wondering how he is doing, this is a definite sign that he is the one because you two care deeply for one another.
5. He Makes You Smile
For most people, it doesn’t take much to make them smile. All you have to do is say a corny joke and you will at least get a sympathy grin, but what is special is that your boyfriend/fiancé is able to make you smile just by thinking about them. If just the thought of them brings you joy and happiness, he is definitely the one. Even better, if he is able to make you smile when you are down, what are you doing still reading this article? If he can make you smile at any time, he definitely has a very special place in your heart.
6. You Can Picture Your Future Together
One of the most important things in a spouse is that they share similar values and life goals with you. If you can easily picture your future together, whether that be the American Dream or exploring the world, you have found a winner. If he has the same ideals as you it will lead for less conflict about your future choices. If having a family is a huge part of your future plans and he hates children and doesn’t want anything to do with them, then maybe you should seriously think about what your next steps are in that relationship.
7. Religious Values
Whether you are a Christian, Muslim, Atheist, etc., a person with a similar religious view is extremely important for your future life together. This is a more important point to a person who is devoted to their religion and whose religion plays a huge role in their life. Finding someone with the same faith as yours guarantees that you both have overlapping values and will be able to agree on how to raise your children in the future by having them go to church on Sunday or go to a mosque. Religious values are normally ruled out when initially falling for someone, but it becomes increasingly important as your relationship becomes more serious.
8. Mutual Respect
If your guy doesn’t respect you, game over. A mutual respect between you and your boyfriend is necessary for a happy, healthy relationship. This respect shows that you see yourselves as playing equal roles in the relationship and that you both expect a certain extent of give and take. This is so, so important, respect is something that cannot be compromised and will make both of you feel valued in the relationship.
These points are here to reassure you that you have found Mr. Right, but the real test is the one in your heart, if you feel that deep down he is the perfect one for you, the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with, the one who you will be there for in good and bad times. These are the real tests that can only be answered with how you feel in your heart. Listed above are things that are proven to lead to a happy relationship and marriage, if your guy fits all of these points, you have found your Mr. Right.